What Would You Not Forgive - Part 2?by Dale Harcombe | More from this Blogger 05 Apr 2009 02:39 PM
With domestic violence there is often a pattern where the violent act is often followed by remorse, and promises never to do it again. Until the next time that is, when the cycle is repeated. Not only does it have an effect on the marriage relationship but on the children as well. Families can grow up with a lot of emotional baggage and unresolved problems and attitudes as a result of witnessing domestic violence. Along with domestic violence, I included in that category, those who abuse children, whether that is sexual abuse or other forms of physical abuse. While it is not something I've ever come across personally, I know of others who have undergone this in their lives and seen the scars it leaves. When I think about it rationally I could never have imagined and still after all these years of marriage, can't imagine facing any of those problems with my husband. The other younger couple agreed. Now, you could say we're naïve. Or maybe it's that in each case, as well as love we have a good understanding of the person we're married to and put a lot of thought into choosing our partner wisely. We also put a lot of work into our marriages to keep them functioning well. I'd be interested to hear your thoughts. Would you agree with these issues? Or is there something else you not forgive or find hard to forgive? Please visit these related blogs The Best thing You Can Do for Your Marriage and Your Family Not the Key to a Successful Marriage Are Men Really the Weaker Sex? How to Keep Your Marriage on Track Learn more about Dale Harcombe  Dale has a passion for books and writing. She writes in various forms, from articles to poetry to fiction for children and adults. Relevantmarriage tags User Comments No comments on this article yet. Be the first to comment! Community Tags abusive husbands, child abuse, domestic violence, not forgive, sexual abuse Discuss this article
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