What Would You Change about Him?

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Just because you are married and in love with your spouse does not mean that you must love everything about him. No two people can be so completely compatible that there is not one thing that they wish were a little different about each other.

So now that you are settled with the fact that it is okay to not like something about your husband and you can still love him, can you answer this question? If you could change one thing about your husband, what would it be?

Give some serious though to this question. The answer could tell you a lot about your relationship. Would it be something in his character that you would change? Would be his looks? Would it be his personality? Would it be a way that he interacts and responds with you and your marriage?

Would you change his height, his weight, his body structure? Would you change his fear of heights, his favorite foods, his style of clothing. Would you change his temper, his communication skills, how he expresses his emotions? Would you change his dedication to the relationship, the attention that he gives to you, the way that he shows his love to you, the attention that he gives your marriage?

If you find that you would be changing a major detail then perhaps you are not as happy and as satisfied in your marriage as you thought. However if your change is something small and insignificant then maybe your spouse is more perfect for you than you thought.

Also consider what you think that your husband would want to change about you? How would you respond to his answer and how do you feel that he would respond to yours?

Would you be willing to accept and try to work on changing the thing that he stated in his replied? Do you feel that he would try to work on your reply?

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Lyn is a kindergarten teacher and mommy to a girl and a boy. In her spare time, she enjoys informative and creative writing.

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