Detoxing Your Marriage

The other night, I watched Joel Osteen. He was talking about toxic thoughts. As he was speaking about the importance of detoxing your thoughts, something he said really struck me. Toxic Thoughts He was explaining how damaging bad thoughts can be. How they shut you down, stifle you, keep you stuck, and prevent you from living up to your full potential. Because bad thoughts are toxic ones and toxins build up over time, contaminating your mind, body, soul, and life. But by detoxing your thoughts, you can live a happier and more positive life and therefore a better one. But … Continue reading

Latin America vs. Europe Dispute Resolved

A few months back I’d written about a the Latin America vs. Europe dispute Wayne and I’d been having. To reiterate: we’ve both been wanting to go on vacation out of the States, but we haven’t been able to agree on where. He wants to see Latin America; I want to see Europe. We finally found a way to settle it once and for all. The Contest Because of the current economic situation, it’s not the best time to head to Europe. I know that. And Wayne really knows that. (The accountant in him was raising objections left and right.) … Continue reading

Causes of Dry Spells

Lately I’ve been navigating completely unfamiliar territory: lack of interest in nookie. It’s kind of freaking me out, because nookie has always been one of my favorite pastimes. I’ve been trying to hide it from Wayne, but it’s becoming more and more obvious. I’ve refrained from saying anything to him about it because I didn’t want him to think he’s part of the problem. Far from it. His sex appeal’s still as appealing as the first day I met him. No, it’s just that the thought of lighting his fire, my fire, our fire seems like too much kindling to … Continue reading

Marriage Week in Review: February 18 – February 24

It seems that this week has been a touch slow for Courtney and me in the area of marriage blogging. I think that like most others this time of year, we may have been a little under the weather for much writing this week. However, I hope that you have enjoyed what was written this week. If you too missed out on some articles, You can always check below for a recap. Monday, February 18 Which is Worse: An Emotional Affair or a Physical One? In this article, Courtney visited the idea that affairs can occur in two forms, emotional … Continue reading

Think “Kaizen” and Mend Relationships One Stitch at a Time

I’m not sure which magazine I was reading recently (I want to say it was Woman’s World), but there was an article about how to accomplish any goal, no matter how big, if you just take it one step at a time. The article explained that the reason many people don’t fulfill their dreams or seize their goals is because they try to do too much at once. However, by focusing on completing one small goal before chipping away at the next –or even worrying about the next– people are much more likely to succeed. The article also referenced the … Continue reading