Marriage in the Floodwaters

Every marriage encounters obstacles and hard times. The difference is some people are better at handling them than others. So you are stuck in the floodwaters, now what can you do? To continue the floodwaters analogy, you could just try treading water and wait till the waters subside. The trouble is you might just go under in the process. So what else can you do? The best solution is to try and find a way out of or around the problem. This is where being able to talk about to with your spouse and get to the root cause of … Continue reading

Could You Trust Your Husband?

I wonder how many Mother’s Day, anniversary or birthday presents husbands have bought for their wives end up tucked away in the back of a cupboard, never to see the light of day or on their way back to the shop? Could you trust your husband to buy you an item or clothing, a handbag, a piece of jewelry, a CD or book you would like? Mick constantly astounds friends and acquaintances of ours by being able to buy clothes for me that not only fit but look nice, that I feel comfortable wearing as they are colors and styles … Continue reading

Be a Blessing

‘Having someone who understands is a great blessing for ourselves. Being someone who understands is a great blessing to others,’ says Janette Oke, author of numerous Christian romance novels. These words were on my calendar for today and I thought how apt they are for marriage. In marriage don’t all of us want that someone who understands us better than anyone else? It should work the other way as well we need to be the one who understands them too. We understand when they need time to process things that are happening and may not feel like talking just at … Continue reading