A Kiss is Just a Kiss

Have you ever thought of the power of a kiss? I know we talk a great deal about romance and we talk about communication and we talk about how important it is for a married couple to build and maintain a personal and intimate connection with each other. Of all the forms of intimacy out there, a kiss is remarkably the most innocent and intimate of these activities. A kiss is exchanged most often between our spouse and ourselves when we are saying hello, when we are saying goodbye and at times, with absolute candor, when we are demonstrating our … Continue reading

Tip of the Day- Laugh!

There’s the belly laugh, the snicker, the chortle, the gurgle, the twitter, and the snort. Did I miss any? How many different ways are there to laugh? More importantly, how many times a day do you laugh? Do you consider yourself a happy person? A recent study found that children laugh about 100 times a day. Adults are lucky if they laugh three times a day. There is something very sad about that. Yes, I mean that literally. Health can really be broken down into three parts: physical, nutritional, and emotional. They all have to work together for your whole … Continue reading

Want to Leave? You Better Earn Your Way Out!

The divorce rates in the United States continue to climb. In fact, I just read a survey that claimed that fifty-one percent of women are single. Now, that statistic did not account for details such as were they previously married and divorced, or widowed or if they had just never been married before but the number was a surprise to me. Divorce is serious and even more serious when there are children involved. Today we live in a world where instant gratification is an expectation. Let’s face it, if we want something bad enough we can find a way to … Continue reading

The Marriage Blog Week in Review for Jan 13-19

Good morning, welcome to the weekend’s marriage blog week in review, our way of trying to catch you up on the blogs you may have missed this week. For starters, in case you may have missed it, a new blogger has joined Sherry and I here as a regular Marriage blogger and she brings with her expertise in marriage therapy as well as in her own unique perspective. So be sure to check out Elizabeth Kane’s blog as you review this week’s entries. Saturday, January 13 Marriage: Mountains and Molehills confronts an issue that while we’re all prone to exaggerating, … Continue reading

Laugh, Cry, Kiss Your Problems Goodbye

Having a hard time lately? One of the best pieces of advice I have seen for coping with communication problems and disconnect in a marriage is to go out and have a good time. You may be looking skeptically at this, but I’ve known two couples who went to a couples weekend to work on their problems. They spent four days at a resort where they thought they were going to spend the weekend delving into every part of their problems and confronting the ugliness that has become their marriage. A Night on the Town The first step they were … Continue reading