Differences in Lifestyles

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24 Jul 2008 05:28 PM

Recently I have been discussing couples in which the mates have opposite personalities and thoughts. While there are sure to be some clashes along the way, these couples can have a very healthy and happy relationship. They simply ne dot learn how to communicate and relate to one another.

The first difference that I discussed was in decision making. Some people make decisions with their minds and others with their hearts.

Today I will take a look at the different views that some people take concerning their lifestyle. Some people live their life by a plan book. They want everything scheduled and rarely stray from their agenda.

Other people are less structured. They live by impulse. They wait until a mood hits them and then act upon it.

These two different types of living can cause some chaos in the life of a couple.

If you are on the planning end, the impulse mate may seem to be reckless and cautiously when it comes to activities. If you are the impulse actor, the planner probably seems uptight and annoying.

There are some things that the two of you can do to help keep peace in your schedule.

If you are the planner, try these ideas.

Try to find a comfort zone with occasionally going with the flow. Try to look at the positive and exciting side of surprise.

Do not allow yourself to only have certain fixed options. Consider what you could be missing out on by limiting yourself.

Try to think about the present. Do not let yourself get too wrapped up in the future. If you are the one who does on impulse, consider these ideas.

Try to focus on strengthening your time management skills.

Try to see the pros of having a routine.

Try to stick to deadlines and begin projects in time to meet them.

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Lyn is a kindergarten teacher and mommy to a girl and a boy. In her spare time, she enjoys informative and creative writing.

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